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| Photography: Jameila Bito-on Models: Zielah Ablong / Clement Fajardo |
Dating can really be fun. In fact, you can never be involved in any
kind of relationship if the date ends in utter disaster. Where else would you
get the chance to know the future love of your life? Dating is about two main
things, how interesting you are and how well you project yourself. You might be
the most handsome or charming guy around. You might even be the sexiest woman
in the world. However, no matter how good of a chance you think you’ve got, why
does the date always end in frustration?
Reason #1. You don’t dress to impress.
For Men. It’s not about being handsome. Neither is it about
timing your punch lines. The first and foremost thing ladies look at is how you
project yourself. Don’t go to a date with morning glory all over your face.
Before you go to any date, make sure you dress to impress.
For Women. The biggest mistake you can ever make is wearing too
much makeup. But don’t get the wrong idea, makeup is a good thing for a first
date. However, too much of it can result in a wardrobe malfunction. Moreover,
forget about wearing clothes that are too revealing. You don’t want to be
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Reason #2. You talk way too much.
For Men. Guys. Listen up. Girls don’t like showoffs. Don’t go
bragging about the stuff you have, how much money you have, or how great your
body looks like. The secret is to let the girl find out herself. Find a way to
do that, and you’ll find the way to her heart.
For Women. Although guys might love listening to your stories,
remember that too much of anything is never a good thing. Look for body signals that can
tell you when the guy’s heard enough. Usually when a guy’s getting bored with
your stories, he’d probably do any of these three things. One, he’d starting
drawing his attention on other things by looking away while nodding at you.
Two, unless he has diarrhea, he’s been gone to the restroom more than once. And
three, he’s rushing to finish his meal.
Reason #3. You’re too shy.
For Men. Most women expect guys to be the dominant person in
any relationship. That’s why it’s important to have a little confidence. Don’t
allow a woman think you can’t handle a simple conversation. Always try to open
up new topics. Before you go to any date, have a list of questions and topics
you can suggest.
For Women. Unless the guy is a total douchebag, be open to talk
about anything. Your role in the date is to keep the conversation interesting
by enticing him with stories that made you the person you are today. But
remember, the trick is to keep him wanting to hear more. This is your key to
that second date.
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| Photography: Jameila Bito-on Models: Clement Fajardo / Zielah Ablong |
Reason #4. You give the wrong compliments.
For Men. Most women don’t like it when you tell them how sexy
they are. Instead, tell them how slim they look. Remember that there is a very
fine line between giving a good compliment to giving a terrible one. Try
conjuring some lines such as, “do you go to the gym often? I just love your
figure.” Moreover, at the end of a date. You’d want to keep them guessing. So
after any date, try to say something like this, “you know, there’s only one
thing I like about a woman. And from all the women I’ve dated, you were the
only one who’s got it.” But don’t tell them what it is until your next date.
For Women. Guys just love compliments; and those compliments
consist of three main topics. One, how good they look. Two, how well they dress
up. And three, how they make you feel. If you give a guy compliments that
revolve around these three topics, you’re all set. But be careful, you don’t
want to make the guy’s head too big.
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